Check out my new installment of  "Let's Talk About It" . I answer questions like "why are men attracted to bitchy women"  ...The affects of Cheating.....Celebrating Recovery Clean Time and I talk about my struggles with my kids...  Please check em out and let me know what you think.. Much Love

Weekly Video.. Let's Talk About It w/Mike Gaffney

This is another episode of my weekly video blog (vlog).. this is part 2 of 2 where I discuss my life, s&m and why am I single... 





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"Let's Talk About It w/Mike Gaffney" Weekly Video Blog (Vlog)

This is a weekly Video Blog (vlog) that I am starting to do again... If you have any question please feel free to fire away.  "Let's Talk About It w/Mike Gaffney"  will be posted weekly on either Friday or Saturday..

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"Life is a rollercoaster from the mind of a Thirteen year old"

Today my daughter, my lil angel wanted to read me something she wrote in school. She said she was just sitting in class , picked up her pen and the words just came out..   I wanted to share it with my friends and fans...

I act like I am not afraid of anything.
I say that words dont hurt me even though they do.
I act like everything rolls off my back even when it doesnt.
I always think I am not good enough for this crazy world.
Life is a rollercoaster that never stops..
I hate when I think about growing up.
I never want that rollercoaster to end or at least I want it to go slower..
LIFE IS FLYING BY BEFORE I EVEN GET TO LIVE IT....

As I heard her read these words I was hit with a couple of emotions... I was sad that she thinks shes not good enough for this world....that she affraid of growing up, that she thinks her life is passing her by.. I was very sad to hear my lil girl say these things but I was soooo proud of her for having the ability to.. I was so happy that she is able to put her thoughts and fears on paper, that she was able to share them with me....I was also very happy that she realizes that life is flying by and we need to get busy living it... I just hope she will understand that each day , each moment is life ...and we have a chance to be apart of each and every second of it if we choose....  That is my job as her dad.. my job is to show her that we cant wait for life we have to go get it... I am so proud of her... she wanted me to post this on my blog becuase she realizes how important it is to share your thoughts and feelings with others , you never know who you may help...

I love you Sammy... This beautiful rollercoaster called life loves you too...HOLD ON TIGHT...

Thanks for reading...

Mike and Sammy

Be careful what you pray for.....

"Be careful what you pray for"... This is something I have been hearing since day one of my recovery... I understood it from jump street..  Basically watch what you wish for because when you get it you may regret it...whatever "it" may be....IT may suck ass....IT may take your car...IT may give you a burning sensation in your groin....IT may make you work 15 hours a day to maintain... IT may use way too much gas....IT may bang your best friend.... I get it...With this understanding I have never prayed for anything specific such as a job , girl, family, car ...etc....I have always prayed to be OK with whatever is happening in my life.. I have always prayed for hope and understanding...

I have recently been feeling a LITTLE lonely .. not LONELY LONELY....just a little lonely... I went as far as to post it on my Facebook... Just saying that something has been tugging at me for a few days now and I think its the fact that I haven't been in a relationship in so long.. I have been HAPPILY single for a long ass time but recently I have once again felt the need or want to have someone special in my life... I will NEVER pray for this to happen....once again I ask my HP to help me be OK with whatever happens in my day to day....  A few very sweet friends/fans/fellowship members have left comments on my Facebook status saying they will pray for me to find someone... NOOOOOOOOOO....please don't pray for me to find anyone...  Its one thing to watch what I pray for but I don't want to have to worry about what YOU are praying FOR ME to find ....Will you be there when IT takes my phone..reads my text messages and flushes my phone down the toilet because she thinks I'm fooling around? or when IT makes me change my damn Facebook profile pic to me and IT kissing?  no....you will be off praying for your pain in the ass to go away....  Thank you for the loving gesture but I'm good..  If I put myself out there IT will come ...and I will know weather IT gets to stay or not....

So I guess I am praying that people don't pray for me....LOL

Much Love
Mike

Angry Serenity Prayer....

Little comedy show clip... This is the prayer I say when I really aint prayin for ya.. Its kinda like when someone says "I'll pray for you" or "some are sicker than others so we should pray for them"... I always tell those assfaces that if you REALLY TRULY plan on praying for someone because you feel they need Gods help then JUST FRIGGIN PRAY n SHUT UP... When someone says "I'll pray for you" they are pretty much telling you to go F yourself but trying to make themselves look like the better one.. Its like saying "I am so Humble" ..

Enjoy

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